She’s talented and beautiful and young and she has cancer.
Please pray for Lindsay’s full and speedy recovery.
Have you ever listened to the Last Lecture of Carnegie Mellon professor, Randy Pausch? I’m kind of surprised that there is anybody out there who has missed this but I also know we are all busy and watching videos is sometimes superfluous! (Don’t click on this link unless you have the following:
1) an hour to watch … once you get started it’s going to be difficult to stop.
2) a box of tissues.
Take a breath. Dry your eyes. Sit for a couple of minutes to absorb the story about the life that you’ve just watched.
What is keeping you from making your dreams come true?
Whenever I hear this song, I’ll remember Diane. She was my neighbor and friend. She called me to ask me for help with caring for her children. I couldn’t help her when she really needed help. I know it wasn’t my fault, it wasn’t my rules, I tried my best. I simply couldn’t provide an au pair for her children when we all knew she was leaving our world for a better place, leaving her children to grieve her loss, open and raw. The program regulations do that to protect the au pairs. I still felt helpless.
It’s funny how songs reminds us of something and can have such powerful, nearly physical memories attached to them. This version is only slightly different from the original but still invokes strong memories for me. Diane’s in the arms of the angels and her family soldiers on. They moved away and, last I heard, they were moving on; Jim was remarried and the kids were doing well. Tyler and Samantha. I’ve not heard from them for a long while. I don’t expect I will again but I still think about them and Diane every time this song is played.
My loss is not like theirs but my life, too, was forever changed in 2007. Everything I ever believed was called into question. It’s been four years and a half and I’m still working to make sense of a re-ordered world. A world that is strangely unsafe and only somewhat familiar. Without choice, I’ve been soldiering on, like Diane’s family. I do pretty well most days and am grateful for friends and family who have faith in me when I loose faith in myself. I know I have angels in my life who are watching over me (as Diane, no doubt, is watching over her family) and hope this path will dump me out into a sunshine-filled field where I can find safety, comfort, happiness and peace.